New Years Eve Eve.

Excuse me while I get repetitive, but tomorrow marks Jon and I's ONE year.  Not a measly 6 months, but an entire year.  All 365 days.  This is a really big deal people.  So big that I'm giving you a picture of the night sparks flew...

Not only am I giving you a picture I'll give you a story...

As I sat with two good friends, Hayley & Shauna at one of our regular locations on December 30, 2010 we began discussing New Year's Eve and the plans.  I remember Hayley was going off to Vegas, Shauna was in love and then me, who was single.  I told them about how so and so was bringing his brother and I even proclaimed my only escape was to indulge in some cocktails.  I was utterly unexcited about having to entertain the idea of a blind date.  New Year's Eve arrives, I of course arrive early to the restaurant with a couple of other friends and I couldn't get a dirty martini quick enough to soothe my nerves.  The rest of the table, along with Jon get there and we all united.  It wasn't love at first site but the night began a lot calmer than I had anticipated.  I'm not one to indulge in awkward converstaion or initiate a new subject and Jon really isn't either, with that being said, it is a tad strange that we became two chatter boxes across from eachother (see below).               

The story gets better so don't leave yet.  As dinner came to a close the server made note of who was on who's tab and of course, single April was on her own tab.  At some point between claiming my own meal and the server leaving our table, Jon found him and covered my dinner and dirty martinis.  Can you say brownie points?  Now comes some humor for the story...mind you, it's 12/31/10 and it is frigid outside and NYE outfits aren't known for their warmth; once we get outside the girls and myself take off to get in another venu while Jon stands behind let down because he just blew Christmas money on a girl who appears to have only wanted a meal.  Eat and Run?  Looked like it.  When our next plan of action resulted in a house party we were reunited, became a victorious beer pong team and when the clock ticked Midnight Jon asked me if I wanted a kiss...What a gentleman.  We went on about three more dates that weekend and here we are today...


Magical things can happen December 31st so go into it with an open mind, a fabulous outfit, lipstick and a cocktail.

Happy Eve of the Eve Eve-rybody.

Anyone making some profound resolutions?  I'm not.  Seems as though every one's resolutions turn into neverlutions and 365 days later they give it another shot.  I make my best life goals sporadically throughout the year, so I'll eat my black eyed peas and get my midnight kiss, but the resolution's going to have to meet up with me another time.

As luck would have it I am now in need of a New Year's Eve outfit.  You probably wouldn't know that back in July I ordered a fabulous top online with the plan to wear it December 31st.  Six months later I finally got around to trying it on and it's just not everything I hoped for.  Bahumbug.  Once I get to Tulsa tonight Jon and I will begin a mission to find me an outfit, he's thrilled.

First of all.

Here we are, the very last Wednesday of 2011.  I have been meaning to sit down and reflect on the past year.  I feel like I've had a lot of "firsts" this year.  My first year at my first big kid job, my first vehicle on my own, bought my first condo and I feel like I'm leaving something out?  Ohhh that's right, my first serious relationship and first long distance relationship at that.  I might as well be real honest and say my first time to fall in love and dare I say my last?  I know, I know...TMI.  But that's to be expected with my blogs.


I still want to shake my head at all the negative nancys who proclaimed all the massive obstacles I would have to conquer after college...where exactly are those obstacles again?  So far it's been smooth sailing. Shame on you.  I think with everything happening I'm being lead to believe it's all about timing.  Agreed?  Every little and large aspect of life revolves around the perfect timing ;  I am not one to get all spiritual on you, but I will admit I have zero control over all my "firsts" and my parents didn't have much control over them either although they may beg to differ.

Did you have any firsts this year?  I think every year has them, for me this one just stood out a lot more. 

Anyway, just some minor reflection for this cold Wednesday.

- April

Christmas Two-Thousand-Eleven

What a Christmas!

I always feel like I have an extended holiday with my mom's birthday the 21st and my brother's the 23rd.  This Christmas was an interesting one.  It started off with me getting some sort of food poisoning and making a trip to the ER.  I lost about 6 pounds through the ordeal so I guess that's a plus? 


As you probably know we split Christmas between Edmond at my parents and Tulsa at Jon's.  It was really fun and honestly I kind of liked getting to be one of the travelers on the road for Christmas.  The only downside was I had no appetite!  No appetite at Christmas?!  You don't even want to know my misery.  Luckily the photos don't show my agony...

The Christmas Soiree was a good time, see below...

Jordan, Leigh, Jon, myself, Lauren, Jordan & two Elliott's on the way

Two great gals, Leigh & Lauren



Josh, HP, myself & Jon

Jon & I have New Year's plans set in stone.  We will be attending a Masquerade Ball!  Jon is such a good sport.  Other than last year we both have never had a great New Year's Eve, so hopefully this one is comparable.  Speaking of last year, this NYE will mark our One Year Anniversary---ONE YEAR!!!  So with that being said, I'm going to pretend all the balloons, people, confetti & parties are in our honor...thanks everyone for the love and support. 

Ladies--what is your thought about rewearing an article of clothing you wore to last New Years?  I loved my mom's vintage petticoat so much that I'm considering wearing it again.  I personally see no problem with this, but I'm sure there are some opposing views--do share.

I hope you all had a wonderful 2011 and if not, you still have a few days to do something great with it.

- April

I wish you a Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas Week!
What a busy, chaotic and fun December it has been so far.  I've been booked with photo shoots, had Christmas parties left and right and have some wonderful friends back in town. 


I have come to the realization I've grown out of the "going out" stage.  You know when you could just crumple tiredness like a piece of paper and toss it?  Well not anymore.  When the tired bug bites my defense is down.  In fact, I even enjoy naps now.  I think it was just a few blog posts ago that I claimed disliking those periodic rests throughout the day.  Times are a changin'.

Laura, Kristi & I at Southern Hills for our work's Christmas Party

Limo & Lights with Switzer & Friends

LaRue's Christmas Party

This is mine and Jon's first Christmas together and I keep getting asked, "Isn't this you and Jon's first Christmas, what are you getting him?!"  Did I miss something or am I supposed to buy an outrageous gift?  Should I have opted for the baby elephant for sale online?  Obviously the rest of you know something I don't.  Speaking of online shopping, that is where I did all of my Christmas shopping this year.  Didn't want to face the mall?  Absolutely not.  Besides, for all you crazies chasing good deals---did you know you can buy online and get free shipping and still apply discounts?  Getting sick to your stomach now aren't you?  Next time consult with me first, I'll lead you in the right direction.

My fabulous mom's birthday is today.  You probably wouldn't know it because I didn't post a status on facebook saying "Happy birthday mom, you're the best thing that's ever happened to me, I can't believe how awesome you are...yada yada."  And you know why I didn't?  BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T HAVE A FACEBOOK.  Random vent session here we go.  People, your 3 year old son isn't on facebook, your husband isn't on facebook and your dog, well I've seen some pictures but no actual profile of him on facebook either.  What great reason could you possibly have to be giving a shout out to a person or animal who will never see it?  Yes, I know you have people commenting below about how sweet you are...but I'm onto you and your attention-wanting-games and you being sweet is the last thing to cross my mind.  I'm a little more pro-animal statuses if anything; at least we can all find humor in those.

I finally got a new phone and am a little disappointed with everyone's lack of urgency to play Words with Friends with me on a consistent basis.  Luckily you can all make that your New Year's Resolution. Chop chop.

Thursday is the Christmas Soiree at casa de April.  I honestly have nothing planned except a relaxing time to catch up with good friends.  And a couple of holiday punch recipes of course!



Aside from the chaos, gift buying, parties and facebook madness, I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas.  Safe travels to those of you hitting the road.

make it flurry, make it flurry, make it flurry.

Hace frio en Oklahoma!


So far our meteorologists have lacked in accuracy the past 3 days; I'm not discrediting their job;  I'm just saying I'm starting to wonder if maybe I should be a meteorologist?  We can't get a heads up when an earthquake is coming, we don't know if we're going to be snowed in and some days I'm under the impression I can go lay out by the pool only to find its actually 40 degrees.

I put two Christmas trees up this year and I've begun the preparation for the Christmas Soiree in a couple of weeks.  It's nice to have a space now that I can actually have people over and they can sit on more than my bed.  Between Christmas events, birthdays & photo shoots I am booked for December---Which is great because I love being busy during holidays.

I cannot believe its December.  This coming weekend Jon and I will be attending my work's Christmas party in Tulsa.  The best blog-safe word I can come up with for this event is "interesting."  I found an outfit to wear, but am not completely in love with it.  My search continues. 

Alright Okies. Happy December 5.